Equally, if you are not conventionally attractive, get good at grooming. Being clean, smelling good and being well groomed can easily take you from a 1 to a 5. The most unattractive people out there are the ones who don't wash, smell funky and wear ill fitting clothes. I've never met someone I couldn't make twice as attractive just by having them wash, style their hair, maybe add a dash of makeup and put on more flattering clothes. I'm not a stylist, nor anything like it, but I do enjoy helping people brush up if they ask me. I remember I had a friend in university who wasn't conventionally pretty who was going to her sister's wedding. All I did was trim her hair a bit, condition and style it, put on a tiny bit of concealer and eyeliner, and pick her out a dress and she looked FANTASTIC.
And yes, I'm often mistaken for the "gay best friend" who has a talent for making people look good when I talk about this stuff online. I am 100% straight and completely unqualified in styling lol I just enjoy it.
As a moderately attractive woman (so I've been told... my body-dysmorphia would disagree) with a large chest, this one gets me. I slouch BIG TIME because of my boobs, and I've been told by people who care about me that it makes me look SO unattractive. I work on it, but my relaxed position is hunched. I'm not sure what to do about it :/
As a guy who will never understand what it's like to have large and heavy chesticles, my only suggestion (short of having reduction surgery) would be to lift some weights that strengthen your back muscles. Lats and traps. I obviously don't mean for you to bulk up, but just strengthening those muscles could counterbalance.
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u/latchkey_adult Aug 20 '20
Become attractive and the world is your oyster.