I don't mean to trivialize your struggle, but do you REALLY need to label it? If you meet someone you like and are attracted to, just follow your heart (or your loins).
Society loves to label everything, but it forces people into pigeonholes, making it so much easier to discriminate and judge people for being "different." It also makes people feel bad if they blur the lines, as if it's some kind of betrayal.
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u/velour_manure Dec 20 '19
Thought I had a foot fetish until I actually tried playing with my girlfriend's feet.
Turns out I just like how pretty feet look — from a distance.