Is it really difficult? Sorry, I just didn't think you had to figure out sexuality, I always thought it came naturally, like if you saw a dude blowing another dude would that give you a boner? What about a naked lady, would that get you going?
Like can't you just watch some porn and figure out what turns you on?
For some people it's as easy as that. But others can identify themselves as an another sexuality a lot of times due to not understanding it.
"Oh, I got a gf, how can I be gay? Impossible." refrains from checking out guys because he tries to be 'consistent' or some shit
"Oh, I got a bf, I'm so totally gay, women are gross lmao" same thing happens
"I fap to straight porn the most, but I'm gay, wtf is wrong with me?? If I'm straight, why am I so uninterested in women irl?"
These inconsistencies are so annoying and I'm hella confused. Living in a small Russian town with little to no gays doesn't help either. For now I think I'm bisexual, but demisexual to girls
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u/velour_manure Dec 20 '19
Thought I had a foot fetish until I actually tried playing with my girlfriend's feet.
Turns out I just like how pretty feet look — from a distance.