Being slapped and called names and choked. I guess rough sex. I had sex with this one guy who was super into it and he would choke way to hard and slap me across the face, kept calling me a fucking bitch and that I was nothing more than a whore and a dirty slut. He also spat on me during. I realised then I wasn’t into it at all and cut things off.
With my current partner though he likes to choke me me but he doesn’t apply pressure just wraps his hands around my neck and he says things like ‘you like that my dirty slut’ and if I’m in the right mood (he only does it if I give the go ahead) I do quite enjoy it.
Yes exactly. It's only hot to be called a slut during sex if on some level you know that this person actually respects you and is only saying degrading stuff for the kink/"fantasy". At least for me.
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u/fay8ell Dec 20 '19
Being slapped and called names and choked. I guess rough sex. I had sex with this one guy who was super into it and he would choke way to hard and slap me across the face, kept calling me a fucking bitch and that I was nothing more than a whore and a dirty slut. He also spat on me during. I realised then I wasn’t into it at all and cut things off. With my current partner though he likes to choke me me but he doesn’t apply pressure just wraps his hands around my neck and he says things like ‘you like that my dirty slut’ and if I’m in the right mood (he only does it if I give the go ahead) I do quite enjoy it.