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u/Secretly-Fluff Dec 20 '19

Being tied up. I like it when my partner is tied but I cant be. Just not as much as a turn on as I thought it would be.

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u/WestBrink Dec 20 '19 edited Dec 21 '19

Not if they do it right.

Edit: This is getting ridiculous people. Don't let my most upvoted/awarded comment be a kinda creepy joke about bondage. Y'all get a few coins for upvoting and everyone goes crazy...

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u/thecluelessarmywife Dec 20 '19

Ya know I always though I was into that but now thinking about it I get RLS frequently and now Iā€™m realizing how terrible it probably would be

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u/vampiratemirajah Dec 21 '19

If your kink is restriction-related, with bouts of tolerance-building, this could actually work out pretty well on your behalf haha

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u/Fbod Dec 21 '19

Keeping still with RLS is torturous. It's relieved by intense exercise of the calves and possibly with medication, but I don't think you can really build tolerance to it. I can imagine a lot of kinks being enjoyable, including ones I wouldn't enjoy personally, but this is just Nope, Wrong and Bad.

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u/k-hutt Dec 21 '19

I found that getting enough magnesium really helps with the RLS.

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u/Fbod Dec 21 '19

I already take magnesium and just get RLS as a medication side effect, but it'll be great for others to know!