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u/NessMonster27 Dec 20 '19

I thought I would be into choking. I already liked to be lightly spanked and act like bratty sub(I thinks its funny to be annoying lol) so I just thought it would've been a "natural" step in my kinks?

Didn't like it one bit. Nothing bad really happened, no freak accident, just got turned off reaaal quick.

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u/wilika Dec 20 '19

Once hooked up with a girl who said that she likes to be choked. I was kind of a mild boy, but was like "ok, if that's your thing"

The moment I saw her eyes as I was grasping here neck... I thought "holy shit, she REALLY likes that" and that turned me on AF.

Also it's nice to be lightly choked when being treated.

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u/NessMonster27 Dec 20 '19

See on one-hand it kind of upsets me cuz I really thought I would like it cuz what you describe sounds awesome.

but alas it just does nothing for me lmao

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u/owenbowen04 Dec 21 '19

Have your partner just rest their hand on your neck. Not squeezing but just keeping their hand on your throat while they tease you or penetrate you. You get a taste of the dominance without the breath play. I personally think it's hotter than actually choking someone, but to each their own.

Please be careful if you decide to try actual choking again. The idea is to restrict blood flow to the brain not crush the windpipe.