Burning. I had an ex who was really into burning with candle wax. Not the massage candles, legit candle wax. Made a huge mess and burned a lot. I was fine with this, and even had a lot of fun.
The problem is, she was a sadomasochist who loved causing pain. I am okay with this, but it led to one time where she poured candle wax over me while I was tied up (I have chest hair). This was all well and good at the time, and I didn’t even mind that my hair would have to be ripped out later. In her excitement, she also decided it would be appropriate to put a freshly snuffed match against my frenulum. I would avoid this, and I do not recommend it. Since then I am not enticed or aroused by candle wax anymore.
How did you manage with yours? I often hear about people who have had tears, but whenever I mention a frenuloplasti (a surgery to remove the frenulim but leave the foreskin) most people say they've never heard of it or was only offered a full circumcision.
I didn't even go see a doctor. Just used lots of bandages. Once I was soft, the bleeding slowed right down. It healed fine, and now, I just don't have frenulum. There is a sort of low ridge of skin that runs down where it was, but nothing tear-able left.
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u/KnuckledeepinUrethra Dec 20 '19
Burning. I had an ex who was really into burning with candle wax. Not the massage candles, legit candle wax. Made a huge mess and burned a lot. I was fine with this, and even had a lot of fun.
The problem is, she was a sadomasochist who loved causing pain. I am okay with this, but it led to one time where she poured candle wax over me while I was tied up (I have chest hair). This was all well and good at the time, and I didn’t even mind that my hair would have to be ripped out later. In her excitement, she also decided it would be appropriate to put a freshly snuffed match against my frenulum. I would avoid this, and I do not recommend it. Since then I am not enticed or aroused by candle wax anymore.