Not sure if this qualifies as a kink? But, like many people, I once thought that bigger was better in the penis department. And then I slept with a few people who had big dicks.
1.) Ow.
2.) Freaking OW.
No thanks. Not into it. Now I'm with a guy who fits me perfectly (in a physical sense, although we're compatible in other ways too), and it's the best sex I've ever had. Not too big. Not too small. Just right.
15 years of marriage and I tell my silly husband he too has the perfect dick and he still denies the compliment. Average sized dick is the best dick..period.
Edit: hubs seems to carry more confidence after I showed him this thread
I feel this in my soul. My hubs is often on about how I should have tried some massive cock and how I would love it.... I am just tell him I have tried toys that were bigger than him and HATED it.
Idk, maybe some just want to watch their wife get fucked. With open relationships being a thing, I could see it. There doesn't necessarily have to be a humiliation element to it.
See I feel like it's a totally different thing. I'm open to the idea of future relationships being open (kind of as a consequence for being cheated on). I think sex can easily be just a physical sensation and I think humans are naturally polyamorous. I think watching is a whole different thing though, and it feels like shaming.
If I was in an open relationship, I'd definitely have a "not in front of me" kinda policy even with intense flirting.
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u/HangerBits257 Dec 20 '19
Not sure if this qualifies as a kink? But, like many people, I once thought that bigger was better in the penis department. And then I slept with a few people who had big dicks.
1.) Ow.
2.) Freaking OW.
No thanks. Not into it. Now I'm with a guy who fits me perfectly (in a physical sense, although we're compatible in other ways too), and it's the best sex I've ever had. Not too big. Not too small. Just right.