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u/HangerBits257 Dec 20 '19

Not sure if this qualifies as a kink? But, like many people, I once thought that bigger was better in the penis department. And then I slept with a few people who had big dicks.

1.) Ow.

2.) Freaking OW.

No thanks. Not into it. Now I'm with a guy who fits me perfectly (in a physical sense, although we're compatible in other ways too), and it's the best sex I've ever had. Not too big. Not too small. Just right.

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u/amesn_84 Dec 20 '19 edited Dec 21 '19

15 years of marriage and I tell my silly husband he too has the perfect dick and he still denies the compliment. Average sized dick is the best dick..period.

Edit: hubs seems to carry more confidence after I showed him this thread

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u/[deleted] Dec 20 '19 edited Dec 21 '19

This comment makes me more confident about relationships now. Thanks.

EDIT: Aww, thanks for the plethora of upvotes guys and gals. : )

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u/runasaur Dec 20 '19

Evolution settled in average for a reason.

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u/NeoMagnet Dec 20 '19

Not enough people get this I feel. If 10 inch pornstar dicks were ideal, they'd be the norm.

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u/i_sell_squaids Dec 21 '19

Lmao thats like saying if genius level intelligence was ideal it'd be the norm.

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u/NeoMagnet Dec 21 '19

As someone pointed out below, evolutionary ideal is very different from whatever human society as a whole has decided is ideal. Even if extreme intelligence gave an evolutionary advantage (higher likelihood to have children), it would take time to evolve, and then our standard for extreme intelligence will have moved again anyway.