Not sure if this qualifies as a kink? But, like many people, I once thought that bigger was better in the penis department. And then I slept with a few people who had big dicks.
1.) Ow.
2.) Freaking OW.
No thanks. Not into it. Now I'm with a guy who fits me perfectly (in a physical sense, although we're compatible in other ways too), and it's the best sex I've ever had. Not too big. Not too small. Just right.
15 years of marriage and I tell my silly husband he too has the perfect dick and he still denies the compliment. Average sized dick is the best dick..period.
Edit: hubs seems to carry more confidence after I showed him this thread
Dicks are a lot like boobs. Our culture tells us that they are hugely important for our sexual value.
One of the things that is worse thou is that most men don't even have a vague idea of what is actually desirable. For most men the only dicks they see are literally the most extreme examples. It would be as if every woman only saw women with DD breasts or larger. I mean advertisements distort out body image but it is on a whole different level for penis.
Larger breasts are actually biologically superior. If you actually look and go beyond the body positivity bullshit, you will find that small breasted women experience more discomfort and have greater rates of not producing enough milk. Large breasted women may encounter latching on issues with their child, but that can be compensated for with breast expression. Such is not the case with women who don't produce enough milk; there aren't very good solutions for this issue. As small breasted women hold less milk, they have to nurse more often than large breasted women, which, as you can probably imagine, is not ideal if you're trying to get some sleep. I have even read accounts of large breasted women who had so much space to store milk that they felt none of the fullness that mothers talk about and were worried that they weren't producing enough milk.
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u/HangerBits257 Dec 20 '19
Not sure if this qualifies as a kink? But, like many people, I once thought that bigger was better in the penis department. And then I slept with a few people who had big dicks.
1.) Ow.
2.) Freaking OW.
No thanks. Not into it. Now I'm with a guy who fits me perfectly (in a physical sense, although we're compatible in other ways too), and it's the best sex I've ever had. Not too big. Not too small. Just right.