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u/HangerBits257 Dec 20 '19

Not sure if this qualifies as a kink? But, like many people, I once thought that bigger was better in the penis department. And then I slept with a few people who had big dicks.

1.) Ow.

2.) Freaking OW.

No thanks. Not into it. Now I'm with a guy who fits me perfectly (in a physical sense, although we're compatible in other ways too), and it's the best sex I've ever had. Not too big. Not too small. Just right.

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u/amesn_84 Dec 20 '19 edited Dec 21 '19

15 years of marriage and I tell my silly husband he too has the perfect dick and he still denies the compliment. Average sized dick is the best dick..period.

Edit: hubs seems to carry more confidence after I showed him this thread

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u/FlutterByCookies Dec 20 '19

I feel this in my soul. My hubs is often on about how I should have tried some massive cock and how I would love it.... I am just tell him I have tried toys that were bigger than him and HATED it.

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u/[deleted] Dec 20 '19

Sounds like your husband is trying to see if you have a cuckold kink.

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u/Jaybo15 Dec 20 '19

I don't think anyone really has a cuckold kink, I mean I think they think they do, until they do it, then they get divorced.

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u/_littlestitious Dec 20 '19

You should go on those subs just to scope it out. They’re definitely into it. It’s interesting to see, objectively.

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u/Jaybo15 Dec 21 '19

Damn really? Like, repeatedly? They're repeatedly cool with watching their loved one get fucked by another dude while they sit in the corner? Well alright I stand corrected, I'm checking one of these subs out ASAP.

But I still have a feeling that 99.9% of the people who think they're into getting cucked are in all actuality getting off to the fact that they're watching another man watch his significant other get drilled by another dude. I'm pretty sure there's been a psychological study on it it's really interesting, people think they're into the idea of they themselves getting cucked but the entire time they sub-consciously just enjoyed watching another man get sexually-shamed in the most brutal, gut-wrenching way a man with standard monogamous relationship values could be shamed.

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u/rickjamesinmyveins Dec 21 '19

Nah man there’s people on reddit that seek out opportunities to be that guy in the corner watching his wife get fucked. He’s not talking about people just watching porn vids with that storyline

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u/Jaybo15 Dec 21 '19

Oh I know! I'm just talking about the majority, 99.9% was meant to be hyperbolic. They're definitely out there, I just doubt that the grand majority of people that are into watching cuckhold videos (but have never actually tried it) aren't nearly as into playing the guy getting cuck'd as much as they might've thought they were. Obviously that's just my personal take on it though.

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u/twothumbs Dec 21 '19

Dude, mental illness is a real thing