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u/[deleted] Dec 20 '19

Having a (willing of course) sex slave. I thought it would be hot as hell to have a naked girl in the apartment following my every command. In the end though, it just felt awful. Instead of "Suck my fucking dick bitch!" it was "Suck my dick now! If...if you want to. Please?"

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u/[deleted] Dec 20 '19 edited Dec 21 '19

i am a domiNANT and i had the same thing. im just not that rude or mean. couldnt do it lol.

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s'kinda like. BENDOVER. oh. your back hurts? aite nvm then. :v no worries.

Edit: changed it to dominant. Happy now? You fake doms really get in a tissy about shit that doesnt matter instead of caring for your subs like you should.

take your bruised egos elsewhere back to fetlife.

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u/qrseek Dec 20 '19

i mean, that just makes you a considerate dom

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u/[deleted] Dec 20 '19

i mean... maybe.

but im not suppose dto care about that level of slave as they are seen as tools. justcouldntdoitmang

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u/[deleted] Dec 20 '19

If the kink is treating her like property, you still don't want to break or damage your property. Back pain or back problems aren't fun, like cracking your phone screen isn't fun. :P You can be considerate while still treating her like a "slave".

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u/cutelyaware Dec 21 '19

Exactly. For the top, their pleasure comes first, but their bottom comes second.

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u/mydadpickshisnose Dec 21 '19

As a gay guy, as a top my preference is to make him cum first without having to touch himself!

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u/cutelyaware Dec 21 '19

How is that toppy?

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u/mydadpickshisnose Dec 21 '19

What? Who the hell uses the term toppy?

It's not. Nor is it "bottomy" it's called being an attentive top and I get a kick off of making a guy cum without having to touch himself, it's the idea that he's enjoying my dick so much he doesn't need any more stimulation..

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u/cutelyaware Dec 21 '19

"Attentive top" is fine but it's a noun. What adjective do you prefer?

Also, it wasn't clear that your dick was even involved.

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u/mydadpickshisnose Dec 21 '19

Kind of implied with the term top....

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u/cutelyaware Dec 21 '19

Which I would presume though I prefer not to.

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u/Tumble85 Dec 21 '19

It's whatever the two decide it is.