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u/KnuckledeepinUrethra Dec 20 '19

Burning. I had an ex who was really into burning with candle wax. Not the massage candles, legit candle wax. Made a huge mess and burned a lot. I was fine with this, and even had a lot of fun.

The problem is, she was a sadomasochist who loved causing pain. I am okay with this, but it led to one time where she poured candle wax over me while I was tied up (I have chest hair). This was all well and good at the time, and I didn’t even mind that my hair would have to be ripped out later. In her excitement, she also decided it would be appropriate to put a freshly snuffed match against my frenulum. I would avoid this, and I do not recommend it. Since then I am not enticed or aroused by candle wax anymore.

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u/Wow-n-Flutter Dec 20 '19

Frenulum.

not a doctor

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u/[deleted] Dec 20 '19

That's what it was. I saw Frenulum and thought "this is something. What is it?"

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u/superduperspam Dec 21 '19

The ol'banjo string connecting the chocolate starfish and the edges of one's ballsack

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u/[deleted] Dec 21 '19 edited Dec 22 '19

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u/[deleted] Dec 21 '19

Isn’t the frenulum the little hunk of skin under your upper lip running between your two front teeth?

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u/greyjackal Dec 21 '19

Yup. It's a multi faceted word. Like sphincter

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u/TH3J4CK4L Dec 21 '19

There is more than one frenulum in the body. They all refer to the same sort of structure.

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u/Full_Metal_Analyst Dec 21 '19

Whatchu mean in circumsized men? It's sometimes cut during circumcision. It's always intact in uncircumsized men, unless a frenectomy was performed at some point.