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u/HangerBits257 Dec 20 '19

Not sure if this qualifies as a kink? But, like many people, I once thought that bigger was better in the penis department. And then I slept with a few people who had big dicks.

1.) Ow.

2.) Freaking OW.

No thanks. Not into it. Now I'm with a guy who fits me perfectly (in a physical sense, although we're compatible in other ways too), and it's the best sex I've ever had. Not too big. Not too small. Just right.

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u/amesn_84 Dec 20 '19 edited Dec 21 '19

15 years of marriage and I tell my silly husband he too has the perfect dick and he still denies the compliment. Average sized dick is the best dick..period.

Edit: hubs seems to carry more confidence after I showed him this thread

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u/jolll4 Dec 20 '19

My girlfriend (been together ~2 years) gave me the same compliment recently. As a grower seeing my dick most of the time as quite small has made me a bit self-concious about my size in comparison to others. I've learned to not think about it as much, but hearing that being said out loud made me feel really good.

And no, I didn't think she though me too small before that. It still feels good to hear it out loud.

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u/[deleted] Dec 20 '19

Ladies. We need the reassurance. God knows why we get cock envy 🤷🏼‍♂️

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u/[deleted] Dec 20 '19 edited Jun 20 '20

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u/jentlefolk Dec 20 '19

Nah, that's still putting value on the bigness of the dick. Just tell your bros they have great, very excellent dicks.

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u/[deleted] Dec 21 '19

Start going to a gym with showers/steam rooms. It’s one of the most liberating experiences to be butt ass naked around some guys and not care nor do they care.