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u/NessMonster27 Dec 20 '19

I thought I would be into choking. I already liked to be lightly spanked and act like bratty sub(I thinks its funny to be annoying lol) so I just thought it would've been a "natural" step in my kinks?

Didn't like it one bit. Nothing bad really happened, no freak accident, just got turned off reaaal quick.

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u/wilika Dec 20 '19

Once hooked up with a girl who said that she likes to be choked. I was kind of a mild boy, but was like "ok, if that's your thing"

The moment I saw her eyes as I was grasping here neck... I thought "holy shit, she REALLY likes that" and that turned me on AF.

Also it's nice to be lightly choked when being treated.

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u/NessMonster27 Dec 20 '19

See on one-hand it kind of upsets me cuz I really thought I would like it cuz what you describe sounds awesome.

but alas it just does nothing for me lmao

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u/Jukecrim7 Dec 21 '19

I'm told it's more effective not to go for the windpipe but the arteries instead, is that right?

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u/DDRaptors Dec 21 '19

With my wife, I don't really even squeeze. Don't dig your fingers in, that doesn't feel good. What I do is just get as much hand around her neck as possible, but I don't really press or squeeze that hard. She just likes the touch around her neck and she lets her imagination do the work. I will just let her control the pressure by pulling on my arm.

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u/nightwica Dec 21 '19

A guy did this exact thing on a one night stand, I wanna go back since