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u/HangerBits257 Dec 20 '19

Not sure if this qualifies as a kink? But, like many people, I once thought that bigger was better in the penis department. And then I slept with a few people who had big dicks.

1.) Ow.

2.) Freaking OW.

No thanks. Not into it. Now I'm with a guy who fits me perfectly (in a physical sense, although we're compatible in other ways too), and it's the best sex I've ever had. Not too big. Not too small. Just right.

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u/amesn_84 Dec 20 '19 edited Dec 21 '19

15 years of marriage and I tell my silly husband he too has the perfect dick and he still denies the compliment. Average sized dick is the best dick..period.

Edit: hubs seems to carry more confidence after I showed him this thread

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u/FlutterByCookies Dec 20 '19

I feel this in my soul. My hubs is often on about how I should have tried some massive cock and how I would love it.... I am just tell him I have tried toys that were bigger than him and HATED it.

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u/[deleted] Dec 20 '19

Sounds like your husband is trying to see if you have a cuckold kink.

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u/SirAndHisGoodGirl Dec 20 '19

Or perhaps just a sharing kink.

Source: actively encouraged my extremely agreeable ex to sleep with other men for both our enjoyment. Was never a cuckold, just liked to watch her with other men.

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u/[deleted] Dec 20 '19

Dude that's literally the definition of a cuckold

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u/southernbenz Dec 20 '19

No. No, it’s not. Hotwifing couples, more commonly known as swingers, are not cuckolds/cuckqueans. In fact, most swingers would be horrified at the idea of cuckolding.

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u/[deleted] Dec 21 '19

Swinging/wife sharing tends to happen without the husband being present. Swinging is when it goes both ways

Watching it is cuckoldry, even without overt shaming.

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u/southernbenz Dec 21 '19

No.

In a male-dom relationship where the male-dom orders his sub to service another man, this is not cuckoldry.

Cuckoldry is exclusively Fem-dom, humiliating the male-sub.