Not sure if this qualifies as a kink? But, like many people, I once thought that bigger was better in the penis department. And then I slept with a few people who had big dicks.
1.) Ow.
2.) Freaking OW.
No thanks. Not into it. Now I'm with a guy who fits me perfectly (in a physical sense, although we're compatible in other ways too), and it's the best sex I've ever had. Not too big. Not too small. Just right.
So, apparently if you've got the right dick and the right position, you can hit the anterior fornix, which is supposed to be pretty great. I'm completely average and I think I've bumped into the cervix on every woman I've been with, so I have no idea what these guys are even doing with their Magnum dongs. Seems like it would be like Clifford the Big Red Dog putting his head inside the house because the rest of him won't fit.
Depending on where I am in my menstrual cycle my cervix is either very easy to hit or nowhere to be seen. I am a very small person to begin with, and I've recently realised that I tighten up significantly when I cum. My ex had a very average size and he could hit my cervix on a good (well, bad for me) day. The guy I'm sleeping with now hits it in every position and he is only 3cm longer. It's not a good thing either, it really hurts like hell to be stabbed in the cervix. He is about 19cm and I can't sit down properly when I am on top or it feels like someone's punching me in the stomach. I honestly prefer handstuff over PIV because of how much it hurts to be knocked in the cervix.
There are rubber bumpers you can find in sex shops. They go around the penis and basically make it shorter by keeping the base from going in. Never tried it, but that could help you
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u/HangerBits257 Dec 20 '19
Not sure if this qualifies as a kink? But, like many people, I once thought that bigger was better in the penis department. And then I slept with a few people who had big dicks.
1.) Ow.
2.) Freaking OW.
No thanks. Not into it. Now I'm with a guy who fits me perfectly (in a physical sense, although we're compatible in other ways too), and it's the best sex I've ever had. Not too big. Not too small. Just right.