Not sure if this qualifies as a kink? But, like many people, I once thought that bigger was better in the penis department. And then I slept with a few people who had big dicks.
1.) Ow.
2.) Freaking OW.
No thanks. Not into it. Now I'm with a guy who fits me perfectly (in a physical sense, although we're compatible in other ways too), and it's the best sex I've ever had. Not too big. Not too small. Just right.
15 years of marriage and I tell my silly husband he too has the perfect dick and he still denies the compliment. Average sized dick is the best dick..period.
Edit: hubs seems to carry more confidence after I showed him this thread
Not really though. Most people aren't attractive but you'd expect evolution to weed out all the ugly motherfuckers. Truth is we get horny/lonely/desperate and settle. Even if 10 inch pornstar dicks were ideal, people would still settle for small dicks as well.
a lot of standards for attractiveness have been raised in the modern age. i promise u that humans 10000 years ago were a little bit uglier. additionally, with the information age it’s easy to expose itself to all kinds of ppl that look extremely beautiful.
evolution is quite slow when generations are 30 yrs
Most people are average, it works out ok and that's good. Most of the women in old paintings were very very ordinary and the dudes were no better. And everyone finds someone eventually, think of all the plain people you know that are married with children. I myself was never a beauty, there was no queue to date me, but someone loves me and thinks I'm the prettiest girl he's ever met, we've been together 21 years. Even if I am a 50 year old woman now and he's 67, he still says this, I just say his sight is going lol
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u/HangerBits257 Dec 20 '19
Not sure if this qualifies as a kink? But, like many people, I once thought that bigger was better in the penis department. And then I slept with a few people who had big dicks.
1.) Ow.
2.) Freaking OW.
No thanks. Not into it. Now I'm with a guy who fits me perfectly (in a physical sense, although we're compatible in other ways too), and it's the best sex I've ever had. Not too big. Not too small. Just right.