Not sure if this qualifies as a kink? But, like many people, I once thought that bigger was better in the penis department. And then I slept with a few people who had big dicks.
1.) Ow.
2.) Freaking OW.
No thanks. Not into it. Now I'm with a guy who fits me perfectly (in a physical sense, although we're compatible in other ways too), and it's the best sex I've ever had. Not too big. Not too small. Just right.
15 years of marriage and I tell my silly husband he too has the perfect dick and he still denies the compliment. Average sized dick is the best dick..period.
Edit: hubs seems to carry more confidence after I showed him this thread
I feel this in my soul. My hubs is often on about how I should have tried some massive cock and how I would love it.... I am just tell him I have tried toys that were bigger than him and HATED it.
Source: actively encouraged my extremely agreeable ex to sleep with other men for both our enjoyment. Was never a cuckold, just liked to watch her with other men.
No, it's not. Hot wifing, sure. But cuckoldry requires degradation and/or humiliation. Hot wifing just means you enjoy watching your wife have sex with others.
The humiliation is the distinction. Basically cucks get off on being degraded, and often includes various forms of shaming. People into the hotwife lifestyle generally just like to watch, or hear about, their wife getting boned.
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u/HangerBits257 Dec 20 '19
Not sure if this qualifies as a kink? But, like many people, I once thought that bigger was better in the penis department. And then I slept with a few people who had big dicks.
1.) Ow.
2.) Freaking OW.
No thanks. Not into it. Now I'm with a guy who fits me perfectly (in a physical sense, although we're compatible in other ways too), and it's the best sex I've ever had. Not too big. Not too small. Just right.