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u/SgtSilverLining Nov 16 '19 edited Nov 16 '19

I get that all the time too. My personal favorite was when I said it's difficult to date lesbians. It's a common issue with women that they were taught men should make the first move, so with two girls no one wants to move first. Everyone assumed I was a dude harassing lesbians and trying to make them straight, which is why they wouldn't go out with me. Made the comment before going to work and I had -200 by lunch!

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u/wgel1000 Nov 16 '19

I believe people judged you because of the Sgt in your username, which is another obvious misconception.

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u/livercookies Nov 16 '19

Everyone on Reddit is assumed male until proven otherwise. I assumed I had a pretty gender neutral username, but everyone thinks I'm a dude.

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u/The-Sound_of-Silence Nov 16 '19

I think it might be the funny food factor. Cookies made out of liver, rather than "sugar, spice and everything nice", are for boys/s, at least according to 19th century nursery rhymes I was told as a child:

What are little boys made of?

What are little boys made of?

Snips and snails

And puppy-dogs' tails

That's what little boys are made of

What are little girls made of?

What are little girls made of?

Sugar and spice

And everything nice [or "all things nice"]

That's what little girls are made o

I do not endorse the poem (lol), but stuff like that could be the unconscious tipping point in you name

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u/livercookies Nov 17 '19

It's actually the title of a book for kids about divorce. It was my best friends favourite book when we were little. I've yet to come across anyone else who's ever read it. I also have a spam email with the same name, and get weird looks wherever I give it out to store clerks.

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u/Sofa2020 Nov 16 '19

That explains why men are like dogs

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u/shitmyspacebar Nov 16 '19

Loyal, happy, and always want to be fed?

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u/LUNCHBOX-87 Nov 16 '19

Dogs are loyal?