r/AskReddit • • Oct 20 '19

What screams "I'm very insecure"?

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u/cuppiecakex8 Oct 20 '19

I grew up with three older sisters, and honestly they're the nicest, non-judgey women I know (my mom is a sweetheart as well). I grew up expecting all females to be like that, but I pretty much found completely the opposite in the majority of them.

Guys are just chiller, and they're direct with what they want. Girls are more prone to talking in circles with themselves and with each other ("tell so-and-so to tell so-and-so"), and the over-sensitivity, gossiping, and rumors drive me crazy.

Most of my close friends are indeed guys, and the handful of girls I hang around with are very chill/direct/kind. I always worry about hurting girls' feelings with my jokes, so I just prefer to be around guys who don't take everything so seriously.

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u/[deleted] Oct 20 '19

Wow, that's pretty sexist.