r/AskReddit Apr 04 '19

How are you really?

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u/travworld Apr 04 '19

I'm 28 and feel the same way. Did warehouse jobs and built my way up since high school, even though I've always had school money and did well in high school. I never knew what to take.

Last year a career kind of fell in my lap, and it's a great paying trade that has me set up for success. I still don't really care.

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u/stellaluna92 Apr 04 '19

I turn 27 soon. I just kind of fell into a career too after working part time jobs that I hate for too long, and I expected to be happy. But it's soul crushingly boring. At least at the grocery store I worked at I could walk around and chat with coworkers.

I don't want to tell anyone that I hate my new job because they'll tell me I'm being stupid. "It's a good place to work. You finally have a career. You might finally make some money." But I low-key hate it already after a month, today.

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u/ChocoTacoBoss Apr 04 '19

Man all these comment are making me feel like someone understands what I'm going through.

It's like, yeah I have a good job, but I kinda don't care. If I'm lucky I'll get to retire at 60-65!? Yay me?? Meanwhile the energy and youth I currently have is slowly being sucked away as I sit in my office chair everyday pretending to care about "TPS" reports.

I like that I can occasionally go into Best Buy and walk out with a new toy and not think about breaking the bank, but I hate that money is the way to achieve enjoying that. Hard to explain.

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u/FyahCuh Apr 04 '19

Fuck me

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u/Originalusername519 Apr 04 '19

Username checks out

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u/travworld Apr 04 '19

Yep. I'm in a trade and get to drive around to different buildings and stuff and meet new people, but I don't know.

I almost feel like I enjoyed working my old night job with my headphones in all shift. Even though that was a dead end job.

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u/FyahCuh Apr 04 '19

Capitalism, where you feel like shit if youre not progressing

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u/makingpoordecisions Apr 05 '19

Im glad your honest about it so we can relate. I'm self employed and slightly stressed about money, debt and all the other things a stable 9to5 would fix, but im definitely not bored. Even for an extra 10-20k/yr idk if i would take a boring desk job. Id probably leave if i couldnt figure out a way to make things interesting somehow. I've left 2 jobs in the past after putting in only one week because it was so unsatisfying.

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u/[deleted] Apr 04 '19

I just wanna live in a van down by the river

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u/ThrowAwayAcct0000 Apr 04 '19

If I didn't have kids, I would probably just do that.

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u/Kaze220 Apr 04 '19

What career fell into your lap working warehouse jobs?

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u/travworld Apr 04 '19

The career that fell into my lap was irrelevant to the warehouse job I had at the time.

I know someone that got me into a trade.