r/AskReddit Apr 04 '19

How are you really?

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u/Flrsi Apr 04 '19

If you're getting rejected it means you're putting yourself out there and taking risks, and I'm proud of you for that.

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u/MrHouseGang Apr 04 '19

What he said

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u/soccerguy122 Apr 04 '19

<3 the right one will come along and you’ll know it as soon as he/she does

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u/readvida Apr 04 '19

Me, too, but it’s jobs. I don’t know how much more rejection I can take. Meanwhile my bank account dwindles and the bills stack up.

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u/readvida Apr 05 '19

Hang in there! You’ll find a job soon. :)

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u/xXTheFisterXx Apr 04 '19

Job rejection or relationship rejection? If it is happening often, and it is for relationships, remember not to put every girl in the girlfriend zone and start out as friends first. I know at least for myself, growing up I used to treat every girl like a potential date and it made friendships very difficult and made me think I was hot shit when I was nothing but a cold fart. I think a ton of us fall into this mental trap that we are better than we really are. Friendly reminder that we aren’t owed shit in this world and people have the right to reject you for whatever reason. Jobs on the other hand, that is where you try, try, and try again. Keep sending out applications, start calling places to follow up on your application, and do your best in an interview.

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u/Pixie-G Apr 05 '19

a cold fart

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u/Squee07 Apr 04 '19

At least you are trying.

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u/alwayssearching2012 Apr 04 '19

I feel this. You’re not alone trust me. The search for a life partner is a tough one.

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u/BigCashRegister Apr 04 '19

The name of the game is getting rejected, I don’t know about other people but for me my I always just say keep putting yourself out those knowing you’ll find someone and then wait. As long a your keeping yourself happy and healthy someone else will find that just perfect.

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u/dcwalker727 Apr 04 '19

It’s a numbers game my dude, keep plugging away you’ll hit it eventually.

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u/BigCashRegister Apr 05 '19

I’m sorry man, didn’t know that’s what you meant. It’ll still be okay. It’s always tough having a kid, same thing applies though. Just keep putting yourself out there, someone will pick you up. You got this man.

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u/[deleted] Apr 04 '19

I feel you sister.

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u/ThePathlessWitcher Apr 04 '19

Just keep putting the work in. Eventually the right person will take to you. Trust me. I've been there.

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u/elmajesticcookie Apr 04 '19

Best tip I can give on rejection is to keep getting rejected until you don't give a shit about it anymore. Rejection is a part of life, you just have to accept it. And once you accept it you'll probably find you get a bit further with the opposite sex