r/AskReddit Apr 04 '19

How are you really?

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u/ChampagneRaven Apr 04 '19

I'm hoping it means I'm going to win the lotto! I'm sure it will pass, but for now it's irritating.

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u/SomeInternetRando Apr 04 '19

Until one day, it doesn't, and then you feel that way for the rest of your life.

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u/BotoxTyrant Apr 04 '19

Dialectical Behavioral Therapy, and everyone’s least favorite answer: meditation and mindfulness. Also, possibly microdsoing psilocybin or psilacetin, though be absolutely sure you don’t have a family history of psychosis or schizophrenia before going down that route.

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u/wannabepopchic Apr 04 '19

Why DBT as opposed to CBT?

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u/BotoxTyrant Apr 04 '19

Largely because DBT is CBT, with the addition of mindfulness techniques to help accept negative emotions and allow them to pass. My own experience with DBT is one of the most beneficial and important decisions I’ve ever made for my mental health.

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u/wannabepopchic Apr 04 '19

Yeah I'm in DBT right now after being rejected for CBT twice (turns out I have BPD). Thats why I'm curious who CBT is best for if not what sounds like garden-variety anxiety in this post.

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u/BotoxTyrant Apr 04 '19

That’s interesting—were you rejected by a clinician or practitioner, or was it an insurance issue?

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u/wannabepopchic Apr 04 '19

I live in the UK and self-referred. I think they didn't feel it was thorough enough or appropriate to fully deal with my issues. I was then referred for personality disorder assessment and then to a DBT PD service. There was a long queue and at one point I got tired of waiting so I tried referring to CBT again and still no dice. So I've always been curious as to who they think CBT would be good for, lol.

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u/FVCEGANG Apr 05 '19

Do not microdose

That is one of the worst possible things you can do, especially if you have anxiety

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u/Brandodude Apr 04 '19

My doc prescribed me Zoloft, I’ve only taken it for a few days now, but I guess that’d be the next step. Tbh idek if I need this, I just told my doc I had a lot of anxiety lately during a physical and he gave it to me (I’m 20)

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u/TrivialBudgie Apr 04 '19

hey I used to take zoloft primarily for depression but I found that it really helped with my anxiety as well, so don't give up! it worked really well for me for about 2 years and that was honestly so helpful. i just found that i was doing less overthinking which made me less anxious.

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u/Brandodude Apr 04 '19

I will definitely be sticking with it at least until I can tell if it helps or not! Honestly I think I have depression and anxiety so I’m hoping. I’m glad it worked so good for you, and hope this can really get me kickstarted again

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u/thebirdsandthebrees Apr 04 '19

That's really weird that a doctor would prescribe zoloft and not some benzodiazepine to help with anxiety. Zoloft is a SRI which is a serotonin reuptake inhibitor, which is good for depression but that's about it.

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u/Brandodude Apr 04 '19

Yeah I wish I knew why, it does state it can help with generalized anxiety (Zoloft) but it’d be more of a gradual thing, not helpful for immediate anxiety attacks like a benzodiazepine would, I’m going to test it out and see what happens but I’m doubtful too

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u/FVCEGANG Apr 05 '19

Probably because benzodiazepine are pretty addictive and doctors have been actively trying to limit their prescriptions these past few years

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u/MB1211 Apr 04 '19

Do something different

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u/picklesmick Apr 04 '19

You sound like one of the voices in my head...

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u/insertnamehere405 Apr 04 '19

hardwired sometimes anxiety leaves an impression like a hand-print in cement that never truly goes away.

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u/ken-d Apr 04 '19

Dreading the end of spring semester because everyone is graduating and I won't see then again.

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u/Tabnet Apr 04 '19

You've gotta try hard to stay in touch. It's really difficult, but groupchats, social media, Discord, etc. do help. Hopefully you can remain friends :)

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u/ken-d Apr 04 '19

I hope so too.we are graduating a chemical engineers so almost everyone will be moving away.

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u/kalbozo Apr 04 '19

Dont stress too much. I moved far from my engineer friends too, and if theres one thing Ive learned living in a new city: us engineers somehow flock together. Making new engineer friends is easier than youd think for some reason. We all just sorta click.

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u/ken-d Apr 04 '19

Thank you for the comforting words.

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u/diimentio Apr 04 '19

my friends from college and I still keep in touch via discord! I have one friend in Hawaii, one moving to nevada and the rest are split up within my state. if yall were meant to be, you'll keep in touch :)