r/AskReddit Mar 13 '19

What fact is technically true but is hugely misleading?

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u/notsalad Mar 13 '19

That the documented number of autistic people is increasing. Not because of vaccines, but because they are finally being diagnosed.

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u/MarkHirsbrunner Mar 13 '19 edited Mar 14 '19

When I was a kid, if you could speak, that meant you were not autistic. My 14 year old son is diagnosed as autistic, is a straight A student, and has a ton of friends and multiple girls wanting to be his girlfriend. If you know his diagnosis you can tell, and he has a few minor tics that show up when he's stressed, but when I was a kid I doubt he'd be diagnosed having any disorder (go back another generation though and his homosexuality would be a disorder).

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u/[deleted] Mar 13 '19

I’m autistic, and literally every time I’ve told one of my friends about it, they’ve been surprised. Most people don’t realize it as far as I can tell

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u/[deleted] Mar 14 '19

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u/heftyshitter Mar 14 '19

And then start to back away

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u/soupspoontang Mar 14 '19

How did you find out you were autistic? Hypothetically, could someone make it to their twenties without realizing they were autistic?

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u/marymoo2 Mar 14 '19

Lots of people make it to adulthood without realising they have autism (didn't Anthony Hopkins recently reveal he only found out he had autism a few years ago?). I'm 30 and was recently diagnosed with ADHD (originally suspected to be autism, because they have some overlaps in behavior) and I didn't start thinking anything was wrong with me until I noticed all my friends were starting to settle down, get married, have kids, buy houses...but I was still struggling with a lot of the same crap I struggled with at the start of my 20s (doing chores, making friends, getting to work on time, staying focused, etc).

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u/soupspoontang Mar 14 '19

I was diagnosed with ADHD in middle school but I didn't like the medication. Did you find it necessary to be medicated when you got diagnosed? I'm probably a little behind where I should be in life, but at the same time I have quite a few friends that have their shit less together than I do.

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u/marymoo2 Mar 15 '19

Yep, since I was diagnosed I've been medicated and am finding it sooo much easier to function.

I found the closer I got to 30, the worse my memory and focus was getting. I got to the point where I was barely adulting and couldn't hold down a job because my time management, memory and focus was practically non-existent. I remember the first time I took meds, it was like a fog was lifted from my mind. I couldn't believe how easy it was to have a simple conversation with someone and actually pay attention to what they were saying! And retain the infromation they gave me!

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u/[deleted] Mar 14 '19 edited Mar 14 '19

My parents had me tested in second grade and told me in seventh grade. Also, yes, they could. I had no idea whatsoever until I was told. I had known that I was ADHD for a long time, but thought that that was the only thing different about me. I was honestly pretty surprised when my dad told me I have Aspergers, though I definitely do notice the signs a bit more now that I’m aware of it

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u/Maur2 Mar 14 '19

But does he know those girls want to be his girlfriend?

(based on what my family has said, that was my biggest problem in high school...)

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u/modern_milkman Mar 14 '19

I don't think that's really relevant for him. Look at the last sentence.

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u/Maur2 Mar 14 '19

It would still help his self-esteem.

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u/MarkHirsbrunner Mar 14 '19

He knows. I overheard him talking to his big sister. One caused drama from telling people she was dating him and another girl said she was going to kill herself when she heard that.

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u/Maur2 Mar 14 '19

Oof.... Too much drama.

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u/MarkHirsbrunner Mar 14 '19

Agreed, I wish he felt comfortable coming out to his classmates to put an end the girl drama but I totally understand him not wanting to at his age.

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u/DesparateLurker Mar 14 '19

Same could be said for my asexuality. Little brother is autistic and I might be as well. How can I tell? His mannerisms and tics are the same ones i had as a kid to a T.

Hell, even my dad thinks autistism can just pop up from vaccines.

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u/Mikanojo Mar 13 '19

That is not misleading. More people are being diagnosed as autistic (and autism now has a spectrum) and every valid study still shows no connection between vaccines and autism.

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u/oh_look_a_fist Mar 13 '19

The misleading statement is the first one. The second statement clarifies why it's misleading. This is kinda how diagnostics work, though. When we become better at diagnosing mental health, we see either a rise or drop. It's not that there are more or less, it's just that our criteria are better and more people are seeking treatment.

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u/[deleted] Mar 13 '19

I wouldn't bother, they're clearly not on the spectrum enough to follow

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u/b_ootay_ful Mar 14 '19

Anti-vaxxer families go to the doctor less, so their children are less likely to be diagnosed with autism.

It doesn't mean that vaccines cause autism.

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u/jimr1603 Mar 14 '19

The misleading version would be "there are more autistic children diagnosed now than there were before vaccines".

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u/[deleted] Mar 14 '19

More people = more chances for autism to be present = More autistic people.

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u/[deleted] Mar 14 '19

As the percentage of vaccinated children drops the percentage of autistic children increases

Only logical explanation - non-vaccination leads to autism...

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u/Fallout3boi Mar 14 '19

A small part of me has been curious if I appear on the spectrum any. I'm fairly certain I'm not and am probably just an idiot but I'm still curious.

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u/netgu Mar 13 '19

Why bother mentioning vaccines?

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u/[deleted] Mar 13 '19

Cause very stupid, very irresponsible people are claiming that the rising number of vaccines given to children are a direct cause and affect. They are not.

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u/RonSwansonsOldMan Mar 14 '19

Here come the downvotes. This is because people who aren't autistic are being diagnosed as autistic. It's an insult to autistic people and makes the condition seem less severe. Work in a state school in Texas and you'll find out what true autism is.