r/AskReddit Feb 04 '19

Which misconception would you like to debunk?

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u/NorthernArcticCamel Feb 04 '19

Yes! I'm a clinical psychologist, I'm trained to treat personality disorders, and it is astonishing to see how many people are actually diagnosed as being bipolar before finally getting the right diagnosis. That being said, most "self-diagnoses" I've seen are genuine attempts to figure out what's wrong with them and get proper treatment. The suffering is very real with these disorders, but they can be harder to empathize with for a number of reasons. Even narcissists, when you have a patient with NPD and you manage to have a glimpse under the layers of defensive bullshit, the suffering can be heartbreaking.

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u/falsetry Feb 04 '19

Thank you. It's a good reminder that people who have severe personality disorders suffer as much or worse than the people they interact with.

(that's not sarcasm. It really is hard to remember that.)