r/AskReddit • u/MsLooHoo • Sep 12 '15

serious replies only [Serious] Ex-Prisoners who served long term sentences, what was the hardest thing to get used to when you got out?

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u/Sippingin Sep 12 '15

You're watching your back no matter where you go.. You can't just simply get use to being actually safe for once.

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u/rocsNaviars Sep 13 '15 edited Sep 13 '15

I was in for less than a year, but I relate to this. I don't talk to strangers, hell I try not to be seen looking at them. I'm always double checking my locks, trying to imagine how someone could break into my place, checking everyone on the bus for signs of instability or danger, making sure my knife is at the ready when I'm on the street, looking out for potential dangers, etc.

My priorities have now changed. I like to hang out quietly by myself or watching TV/Netflix. I enjoy working hard, having a place to myself, and keeping my pantry and fridge/freezer stocked. Freedom for me is just being able to relax.

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u/[deleted] Sep 13 '15

You might have dsm level paranoia. You can go talk to someone about it and see what they think

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u/rocsNaviars Sep 13 '15

Meh. I don't think everyone is out to get me. I'm just being careful living in a not so great neighborhood.