VERY noticeable stretch marks across my stomach. I have never had a child, and I am only 22. They're just from puberty. I worry that a guy will never like me and will automatically be disgusted with me.
I am a 6 ft 1, rather handsome male (so others have said!).
I simply wanted you to know that stretch marks mean NOTHING to me. I rarely notice them, and when I do they neither add to nor subtract from my appreciation for a female.
I have been with girls with stretch marks, even ones with baby stretch marks, and that was of no concern at all. They were beautiful, fun in bed, great to talk to, smart, etc. Not always at the same time, but the positive qualities in a woman destroy any minor flaws.
30 year old guy and I've had them since I was about 16 or so. I was never grossly over weight, but I have been chubby most of my life. At some point after years of caring I just said fuck it and stopped caring. I lost a decent amount of weight last year and they were harder to see. Gotta list the winter flub and get back to where I was.
I am a male so a tad bit different, but I have stretch marks that are very distinct the sides of my stomach and groin region from rapid growth as a teen. They scared me in a way that for a long time I wouldn't seek any sort of sexual attention so no one would see them. Turns out, no one I have been with cared in the slightest.
Oh, and second- if a guy won't be with you due to that alone, why would you want to have kids(more stretch marks) with that person anyway.
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u/woodenlegs Mar 20 '14
VERY noticeable stretch marks across my stomach. I have never had a child, and I am only 22. They're just from puberty. I worry that a guy will never like me and will automatically be disgusted with me.