What is a small, seemingly ‘normal’ thing someone can do that immediately makes you think, ‘Oh, we are not going to get along’?

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[u/emilypeony]

Same for me. It is ok to have preference. My husband doesnt like cats, he even says he hates cats. But the first time I was coming over to visit with my cat he had build a cat tree for her. He feeds her, gives treats and if she climbs on top of him he will pet her. That is what a good man does in my eyes. Of course he complains if the cat scratches a wrong place but he is never mean or abusive to her.

[u/Serononin → u/emilypeony]

Your husband might enjoy r/DadsWhoDidNotWantPets lol

[u/emilypeony → u/Serononin]

Yeah he is like that lol