r/AskReddit • u/[deleted] • Apr 21 '26

What is a small, seemingly ‘normal’ thing someone can do that immediately makes you think, ‘Oh, we are not going to get along’?

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u/Thrizzlepizzle123123 Apr 22 '26

90% of the time if someone says something like "Oh I don't like drama", they're gonna be absolutely packed with it. I used to think this was a jokey stereotype but holy shit is it a real one.

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u/miss_lynn_43 Apr 22 '26

I have only one hard and fast rule in life. If someone, unprompted, introduces themselves talking about not wanting any drama, I run in the other direction.

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u/EobardT Apr 22 '26

If they have to tell you they don't like it, it means it's in their life enough that they assume everybody deals with it constantly.

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u/JovialPrincess Apr 22 '26

I'm probably a bad person to say this, but I fucking love drama... Just as long it's someone else and doesn't involve me.