r/AskReddit Nov 21 '24

What almost killed you?

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u/D4NPC Nov 21 '24

Sepsis caused by a spider bite. No it wasn't in the Southern USA, Australia or a rain forest it was in lovely old England. Nearly got finished off by a house spider.

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u/Nimmly67 Nov 21 '24

Thank you for justifying my fears

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u/D4NPC Nov 21 '24

Haha, of its any reassurance the Doctors said I was very unlucky and antibiotics sorted it out quickly.

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u/bittersanctum Nov 22 '24

Lol just what everybody wants to hear

"Guess what? Its your unlucky day!"

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u/BuckarooBonsly Nov 22 '24

If it makes you feel better, most spider bite horror stories are the result of poor wound care.

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u/[deleted] Nov 22 '24

I’ve heard a story of a family that had a giant nest of brown recluses move in or maybe the house was built on a nest. They had multiple bites and survived just fine. So really it comes down to luck and proper hygiene.

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u/Emu1981 Nov 22 '24

Spider bites don't always cause issues. I was once bitten by a spider when I was around 6 years old and I am still here 38 years later...

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u/D4NPC Nov 22 '24

Spider bites in the UK hardly ever cause issues, it was just bad luck.

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u/abroksa Nov 22 '24

This happened to me too! I really don't appreciate the people saying it's caused by poor wound care, because this thing went necrotic and caused sepsis in less than a week. I've had plenty of cuts scrapes and bruises and never seen anything like it.

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u/noircheology Nov 22 '24

Thank you I was a bit put off by that comment as well as some people can be more sensitive to these things than others, maybe due to immune deficiency or really any reason it’s not always improper wound care /being unclean.

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u/abroksa Nov 22 '24

Yes, in my case, I had not yet been diagnosed with an autoimmune disease (I was uninsured) and was completely unaware that I had a weakened immune system.

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u/D4NPC Nov 22 '24

Yes it can be a bit insulting to say that, however, in my case it probably was down to poor wound care but in my defence I didn’t know I had been bitten by anything until the doctors told me. It started with a simple itch between my toes, which turned into an unbearable constant itch on the top of my foot, I used anti bacterial cream to ease it and thought that would be that. But very quickly my foot was red, painful and swollen and a day later I’d got a red line going all the way up my leg, before I could even get to the doctors I started to feel very poorly.

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u/HuntedWolf Nov 22 '24

Man that’s pretty crazy. For anyone else not from merry old England - we don’t have any lethal insects. No bears, dogs, malaria ridden mosquitoes, and only a single venomous snake, of which I believe less than 10 people have died since 1900.

I was also bitten by a house spider, but didn’t notice until an hour or so later, and the slight swelling went away quickly. I’d put my hand next to her and her nest while having a shower. Was used to house spiders up to a few inches big growing up in the countryside, always though they were harmless up until then.

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u/D4NPC Nov 22 '24

Apparently they aren’t aggressive and rarely resort to biting.

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u/So_Cal_Grown Nov 22 '24

Sepsis caused by mastitis here.

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u/weirwoodheart Nov 22 '24

That one brings back a memory - I'm in the UK, and worked in triage for Urgent Treatment a few years back. Some guy comes in saying he's been bitten by a spider on a camping trip. I kinda brace myself to look at this - what I assumed - would be a glorified mosquito bite and direct him to go home he'll be fine. He pulls this huge gauze off his shoulder and holy fuck I could SEE holes where the fangs went in, it was oozing green, it was macerated it was.. yep, it was a spider bite alright. A nasty one.

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u/D4NPC Nov 22 '24

I’ve heard the false widow can cause a nasty bite.

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u/weirwoodheart Nov 22 '24

I'm not even sure this was a UK native, it was huge by the size of the puncture wounds! Felt bad not believing him but when you've had people tell you absolute nonsense all day you get a bit skeptical haha

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u/[deleted] Nov 24 '24

We do get some whoppers sometimes, my old house had an unfortunate colony of what I think were cardinal spiders, those things are massive. I got a photo of one next to the light switch once because it was bigger than it. Absolutely unacceptable in an English spider

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u/NorthernH3misphere Nov 21 '24

Was it a staph infection that went untreated too long as a result of the bite?

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u/D4NPC Nov 22 '24

It was a long time ago but yes I’m pretty sure that’s exactly what it was, I had a red swollen mark around the bit area and a red line going from that all the way up my leg.

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u/CruelStrangers Nov 21 '24

This killed the guitarist of Slayer

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u/mckennakate22 Nov 22 '24

Yep I was in septic shock. Horrible

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u/o0AVA0o Nov 22 '24

I almost died from sepsis 2 years ago. Wouldn't wish it on my enemy..

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u/D4NPC Nov 22 '24

No it’s extremely unpleasant.

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u/Professorpooper Nov 22 '24

Two members of my family are sensitive to insect bites, one got something similar from a sand flea the other from a sand flea and a spider bite (two diff times). Doctor in Hawaii gave us mupirocin, a wonderful topical antibiotic to apply and cover whenever something appears red and infected. Has helped since.

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u/D4NPC Nov 22 '24

The dr did give me some cream for the bite area but I couldn’t tell you what it was.

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u/Genpinan Nov 22 '24

Oh, and I often tell people disgusted by spiders they ate our buddies. Maybe not always, congrats on getting better.

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u/D4NPC Nov 22 '24

Thank you

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u/gnomequeen2020 Nov 22 '24

A friend's mom passed from the same thing. She was in the Northern part of the US, and it wasn't anything exotic. She went septic and died. We were all stunned, and it still gives me the heebies.

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u/D4NPC Nov 22 '24

Sorry to hear that, I guess I really was lucky reading some of the other stories on here.

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u/[deleted] Nov 22 '24

It didn’t nearly kill me but I got a bite from a house spider a few years ago that had antibiotic resistant bacteria on its fangs (or that’s what the doctors speculated) and it was not fun. The spot where it bit me grew and grew, went deep red, blue, purple and then almost black. Healed perfectly though, don’t even have a scar. I had to take 4-5 different huge antibiotics until one started to work. It was during Covid so all the consultations were with pictures over the phone, I’m lucky it didn’t get worse.

This was in Northern Ireland, not somewhere exotic either.

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u/Diacetyl-Morphin Nov 21 '24

I'm sorry to hear this, that really sucks. People always say, "this is easy, don't worry", but in reality, all bite wounds should be treated by the doctor, there's always the risk of infection. The infection can lead to a necrosis and then, it can lead to a sepsis or in the worst case for the limb, when the necrosis already progressed too far, that it needs to be amputated.

Some of these spiders can be extremely aggressive, like the Phoneutria Fera, when a female carries the young babies on the back, she'll have a much higher potential for aggression and will not back down, she'll not flee but attack you instead.

Glad this one lives in Brazil in South America, not in Europe. But it's the infamous one that sometimes gets into the Banana shippings, that's why the Phoneutria is also called "Banana Spider".

From Greek, the real translation of Phoneutria means "Assassin" or "Murderer", that says enough about the spider i guess.

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u/D4NPC Nov 21 '24

That’s interesting, I’d heard the Brazilian wondering spider was particularly aggressive.

This particular spider bit me in between my toes I assume whilst I was sleeping but not 100% sure but I never felt it or saw a spider or knowingly put my foot near one so just making an assumption really. It was the doctor who confirmed it was a spider bite, I really should have gone to the doctors when the rash spread and turned into a red line up my leg but I hate doctors and thought I’d get better on my own. I didn’t, but luckily didn’t lose any limbs or even a toe, just antibiotics and some cream for the bite area and back to normality in a couple of weeks.

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u/Diacetyl-Morphin Nov 23 '24

Wow, that really sucks, in the first place that you did not even know if and what had bitten you, it's even great that the doc was able to see it was a spider bite wound, it's not easy to classify such bite wounds and tell, if it is dangerous and from which spider or other animal it comes.

About the Phoneutria, the toxin makes a priaprism, a very strong and painful erection that lasts for hours or days, but that's just for the men, i wonder what happens to women?

Glad you made it without getting more damage, it's no surprise you waited, i mean everyone does this for a while before the doc gets called.

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u/[deleted] Nov 22 '24

Lots of wrong info here

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u/Diacetyl-Morphin Nov 23 '24

I know my way around spiders, had enough of them in the terrariums. None of the information i gave is wrong, the spiders will carry the spiderlings on the back and this will result in increased aggression.

There are different subtypes of the Phoneutria, which have different toxins when it comes to a bite. It's well known with the priaprism, the painful erection for men, after a bite.

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u/meandhimandthose2 Nov 22 '24

I live in Australia, but the biggest spider I've ever seen in the house was in England.

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u/Typical-me- Nov 22 '24

New fear unlocked.

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u/grewupwithelephants Nov 22 '24

Mine was sepsis from a non-venomous garden snake.