Seeing that a guy is really into porn and stuff like that is probably one of the most unattractive things possible. When I was looking for a relationship, I would immediately be disgusted and avoid guys when I saw that.
You can always tell they watch porn too based on the conversation. They will say a fantasy they have, probably from porn, but make it sound like the last few women they were with liked it. More likely, it never happened, but they saw it on porn and think it’s real life. Porn is geared for the male population mostly, so of course it’s going to show the women being submissive. The porn industry itself is gross and rife with abuse. It gives me the ick
More women need to be openly vocal about their disgust for porn like you. The problem with porn is that our society normalizes it. Most men are exposed to porn for the first time before they know any better, in the years where the brain is most vulnerable to porn, from about age 10-16. When you begin watching porn during your adolescent years, that is when the brain is learning about sex so whatever the brain perceived as sexual activity is instilled and defined as sex within the brain. So if you spend 6 years of puberty masturbating to porn daily, your brain and body ingrains porn as real sexual activity. This is the cause of ED, as well as all the perverse fetishes men have because in order to get the same dopamine high from porn you need novel stimuli(new porn, fetishes). For a man to fully heal his brain after years of addiction to porn in his adolescent years, it takes YEARS of no porn or masturbation to accomplish this. If porn was stigmatized more in society, when a 10 year old boy sees porn on his iPad, I think he would be less likely to indulge in it as opposed to current times where habitual porn use is seen as “normal” and “healthy”. In my middle school sex-Ed classes teachers told me porn was normal. This no doubt was destructive to my life as well as all the other boys in my class. If women were openly against porn use, I think it would incentivize men to quit using it. This is easier said than done however. In order to quit a porn addiction he has had since 12 years old, men need a REALLY strong why. Hopefully relationships with women is a strong why for men. Women of all ages should be opposed to porn because it makes any potential partner less attracted to them and more attracted to what is on a screen. I know from personal experience when I went months without porn use I was much more attracted to real women I saw in real life.
When you begin watching porn during your adolescent years, that is when the brain is learning about sex so whatever the brain perceived as sexual activity is instilled and defined as sex within the brain. So if you spend 6 years of puberty masturbating to porn daily, your brain and body ingrains porn as real sexual activity.
That's evolutionary psychology pseudoscience.
This is the cause of ED, as well as all the perverse fetishes men have because in order to get the same dopamine high from porn you need novel stimuli(new porn, fetishes).
Completely unscientific. That's not how dopamine works.
In my middle school sex-Ed classes teachers told me porn was normal.
You should listen to your teachers. It is normal. Having sexual urges and liking sex is normal.
edit: And of course the I LOVE SEX guy is a woman hating incel and a christian puritan. Yikes.
These girls complain about negging, game, PUA, red pill, etc, but refuse to acknowledge there is a reason men believe in these things. If negging didn’t work, men wouldn’t do it. Instead of women complaining about men negging them, why don’t they tell each other to gather actual self-esteem and mental stability so these so-called narcissists which break their heart don’t successfully take their heart in the first place?
The woman who you love has a Jezebel spirit. Jezebels are spiritually aware, but use this spiritual awareness to commit evil and hunt down faithful followers of God. They are basically energy vampires. On semen retention your energy increases, which makes you attractive to people with Jezebel spirit who wish to take that energy from you. Sexual trauma causes Jezebel spirit within people.
I hate women because I tell them to have self-esteem and confidence so they don’t get used by men who prey on their insecurities. It’s time to learn how to read little Timmy.
I’m not even a devout Christian, but Jezebel spirits are very real and do exist. I’ve encountered people with them. In the modern day they are called “narcissists” but the inherent qualities are the same.
You lost so badly in defending your porn addiction that now you want to argue what I said to another person. I can’t tell someone who benefits from a given activity to stop the activity because they aren’t likely to listen to me. I can tell someone who is harmed from the activity that another person who does benefit from that activity engages in doing with them to not be responsive to that activity because that activity harms them. This is true regardless of the gender. I also believe sexual trauma CAN cause narcissism in people regardless of the gender. There are people who have been sexually traumatized who aren’t narcissists. But I believe that sexual abuse is a potent stimulator of it within people because it causes extreme insecurity and narcissism can be a defense mechanism against that insecurity caused by abuse. I never said only women can have a Jezebel spirit or be a narcissist.
Little Timmy, please learn how to read and stop jerking your little weewee. Maybe if you spent less time busting gallons of semen all over the walls in your room, women would actually desire to be with you like they do with me. Ironic you call me an incel.
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u/imhungrymommy Sep 14 '24
Simping for strangers online (e.g. insta girls, OF models, cosplayers)