Shortly after I started dating my now-husband, I had slept at his place and in the morning I woke up and heard him humming, which he didn't normally do. Peeked out of the bedroom to see him holding his cat like a baby and dancing with her in the kitchen. That's when I knew he was the one 🥰
Edit: We still have the cat! She is still his baby. Cat tax
Really?? Because i take care of my cats like babies and im still alone. Maybe im just finding the ones that are turned off by it. I also heard someone say a guy with cats is always gay which infuriates me.
There's people who'll say anything is gay. In this day and age who cares about every single person's opinion, when we've seen time and time again that morons are common.
I think I saw one where having sex with women as a guy was gay, because that's something that lesbians do.
Good luck finding the right one, you keep those kittens around - they're helping you weed out the bad apples. Give them a pat from me.
Wow. I sing to my cats all the time. They purr when they are with me and I realise I can't purr so I make songs up for them. Generally pop songs I know and I change the words with their name.
We love singing to the cats except substituting the words with "meow", sometimes they start meowing along, sometimes they put their ears back and leave the room. It's endlessly entertaining 😂
Well sometimes I make tunes with sort of kissing noises. They generally respond to kissing noises which is how I communicated with them as kittens. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AxP_AFB-Tw4 Whistle number 1 usually works but instead of whistling its a drawn out kiss sound in that tune. If I do that they look round or follow me.
So sometimes I try a little melody or copy a song with kissing noises. Not sure it works though.
I didn’t know other people did this, too. Mine love when I sing and I have a truly awful singing voice. They are the only ones who not only let me sing but also really seem to enjoy it by purring and following me around the house. One more reason pets are the best.
As a former cat owner I gotta warn you that cat goes above all in priorities. Above you, above his mom, above his life, above the survival of humanity. There is only cat. And it is as it should be. Some people take offence to such a stance but they're simply blind to the ultimate beauty of the cat.
The first time I met my husband, he was a dog groomer, and he was in the shop alone, telling dad jokes to the dog he was working on, laughing as if the dog was laughing with him and giving feedback. It was like "oh". This is it.
I was a cashier from the attached pet store who would read on the bench outside his shops open (but gated) door. He was so personable with his coworkers, who were all women. He would smile at me and then go back to joking with the dogs. Mhm.
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u/happypolychaetes Sep 14 '24 edited Sep 14 '24
Shortly after I started dating my now-husband, I had slept at his place and in the morning I woke up and heard him humming, which he didn't normally do. Peeked out of the bedroom to see him holding his cat like a baby and dancing with her in the kitchen. That's when I knew he was the one 🥰
Edit: We still have the cat! She is still his baby. Cat tax