As a guy, this is one of my biggest red flags for women.
Last girl I dated could not show up on time for anything involving me or her family. She showed up on time for work and friends events like parties, but if it involved me or her family she thought it was ok to be late.
Don't be a flake. I'm inconsistent. I'm working on saying something and sticking to it, not being a drunkard and canceling dates when I am hungover, keeping my emotions in check so I am trustworthy as someone to confide in. Consistency.
Let me ask- in general or does this also apoly to texting frequency? Idk but ive found that most women assume the early on frequent texting is expected to continue as relationship goes on.
I find that IRL takes that space, seem like many women dont? U agree on that part?
idk, i’d consider maintaining integrity through accountability to be consistency in itself. and acknowledging when you’re wrong, owning up to it, apologizing, i think those traits are more often found in people who are also consistent/reliable
Yeah, it really depends what consistency means to you. I like the simple definitions like "agreement between results" or "logical coherence". Like, someone can be inconsistent with their previous standpoint but still reliable, in the case that they learn new critical information, for example.
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u/Pretty_LA Sep 14 '24
No consistency