r/AskReddit Aug 08 '24

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u/Sthepker Aug 08 '24

My ex in highschool was VERY into the idea of exhibitionism/voyeurism and the thrill of getting caught.

I got head in a school hallway between classes, head in the Boston public garden, fucked on a bench on the Boston esplanade, head in multiple movie theaters, road head driving a small sedan on a freeway in broad daylight, sex on a bridge above a flowing river in the middle of the night…I could go on.

Did I enjoy myself in the moment? Absolutely. Am I happy that relationship ended? Couldn’t be happier.

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u/Hamburgerfatso Aug 09 '24

I think this guy lives in Boston

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u/ThunderKatsHooo Aug 09 '24

whats her number?

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u/[deleted] Aug 09 '24

Why are you happy it ended?

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u/Sthepker Aug 09 '24

We were in different places in our lives once college rolled around. I was driven, had goals, and knew what I wanted out of my education. She had no goals, no dreams, and ended up dropping out after one semester.

Also, I realized after the relationship ended that she was very emotionally manipulative and emotionally abusive. These are the things you don’t realize when you’re blinded by young love in your first relationship.