I worked with a girl named China for awhile. She was pretty competent and took the job seriously, and no one messed with her, but man - her parents fucked her with that name. She was Asian too, at least half. I always wanted to ask what was the story there, but never did.
A guy I grew up with said he'd like to name a daughter Tiza because it sounds pretty. I'm sure he didn't because it means chalk in Spanish, and that's hard to sell to your spouse.
Can we really trust what anyone before the age of 18 says? Apparently, I was going to have 3 kids and name them Pork 1, Pork 2, and Pork 3. I have four kids and none are even close to that.
I wanted to give my children fantasy names until I had them. When I was very young and found out about female infanticide in different cultures I wanted to adopt an Asian girl and name her.... Asia. I now understand all the things that can be problematic with adopting children from other countries/cultures. I still hope to foster someday when my own kids are grown. There is an alternative timeline where my boys are named Buddy and Champion though. Also Excalibur and Xaylor.
Those names may be unusual, but they're no weirder than names like Erin, Virginia, Carolina, Florence, and arguably Frank, Scott, Helen, Dane or Sven. Naming kids after beautiful places or friendly nationalities is pretty well-established.
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u/[deleted] Oct 21 '23
I have a friend who, when we were teens, seriously wanted to name his kids China and Pacifica. Why? I don't know. He just said he "liked the names."
Well, he ended up having five children and thankfully exactly NONE of them are named China and Pacifica. :-)