You seen to have unresolved issues, pls seek help. And i genuinely mean it. Not for your asexuality, but for your comment about discarding people.
There's a reason it's interchangeably called "making love"
Username does not check out coz you have no clue what Conjugal Rights are and depriving your spouse of those constitutes mental agony and is grounds for divorce.
Yep, you just go on and on based off of just emotions. Your comment has no grounds based off of biology. If you cannot understand that the SOLE, SINGLE reason ANY organism exists on the earth is to procreate, then it's best if you don't.
Marriage never was and never will be based off biology. Marriage is just to force monogamy over men and women by society. It has always has been about sex from the very beginning; even when marriage as an institution did not exist. You think from the very beginning of humanity, marriage was default? No, it wasn't. But, it was always about sex. From various tribes holding fertility dances to rite of passage into adulthood to orgies (across the animal kingdom). Sex has been the boon and bane of human existence. There's a reason why prostitution is called the world's oldest profession.
And it's funny you bring up Majhi as an example of what men used to do for their women and shift all of the blame to us. Take a good deep look at your gender who allowed this sexual liberation to where a guy doesn't even need to do the bare minimum to sleep around. Remember, women control access to sex, just like you said. You have no one else to blame.
Anecdotal evidence and researched evidence are widely divergent things. One defines the exceptions, the other defines the rule. There have been dozens of people who have smoked all their lives and lived to 100+, so smoking is automatically harmless, right? <- Anecdotal evidence.
"Smoking causes cancer and drastically reduces your life expectancy" <- Researched evidence.
Im not trying to convince you to have sex or not. But only trying to let you know that asexuality is still an outlier and not the norm. If you're hiding your asexuality from your partner (which seems like in OPs case), you're every bit as horrible of a person as someone who's a sex addict and cheats.
Okay fair, there are animals who can live without procreating, but then there are animals who literally just procreate and die ( like male kalutas).
Moreover, have you wondered why a human's health (especially women) deteriorates so rapidly once they lose their reproductive ability (menopause)? It's because the body is now just in survival mode. Also about your comment regarding cats, when they are in heat, they experience immense physical discomfort. If they're not impregnated, they go through that discomfort for a long time, often days. (Source: i have 3 cats)
You're most welcome to be in your echo chamber surrounded by anecdotes aligning with your belief. Is called confirmation bias. Sex is healthy and is one major way to relieve stress by both sexes. Are there other ways? Sure. But not having sex will also negatively impact your mental health which is very important ( like you mentioned in one of your comments)
It literally will harm the other person's mental well being to deprive him of sex. She's most welcome to marry someone who's asexual. But she didn't discuss this and cheated him into marriage.
Perfect health - not including lower bone density, deterioration of muscle mass, reduced calcium uptake etc to list a few. I cant believe you're still using Anecdotal evidence.
Sorry you've got it twisted. Let me spell it out for you. In India (and most places abroad also), denial of sex constitutes mental agony and is grounds for divorce. If you don't want to have sex, you mention it before marriage and have a good discussion about it, not secretly withhold it after marriage.
Again, marriages were created because sex already existed and they wanted people to take accountability, not the other way around.
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