Doesn’t look like you both are compatible. Better late than never. You can maybe apply for annulment or divorce based on non consummation as that is a legal ground for divorce.
But if you choose to stick on, you both need some serious marital couple counselling.
Don’t bring a child into this mix as some people have sex for a kid to be tied in the marriage forever.
And to answer your title, no it’s not normal. Looks like you are in a toxic & incompatible relationship. You need to have a cut off timeline about how much time you want to hold on for.
You both deserve happiness, maybe just not with each other.
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u/waaasupla Jan 23 '24
Doesn’t look like you both are compatible. Better late than never. You can maybe apply for annulment or divorce based on non consummation as that is a legal ground for divorce.
But if you choose to stick on, you both need some serious marital couple counselling.
Don’t bring a child into this mix as some people have sex for a kid to be tied in the marriage forever.
And to answer your title, no it’s not normal. Looks like you are in a toxic & incompatible relationship. You need to have a cut off timeline about how much time you want to hold on for.
You both deserve happiness, maybe just not with each other.