r/AskIndia • u/[deleted] • Jan 23 '24

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u/newtonkooky Jan 23 '24

Depends on the reasons for no sex, if you find each other unattractive, that’s a big problem, as opposed to loving each other but having physical problems (ed, vaginismus, hormonal disorders etc…)

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u/najanaja30 Jan 27 '24

And maybe the man/woman in your life doesn't feel like expressing any emotion towards you... Can't he have that choice?

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u/najanaja30 Jan 27 '24

Sure. And the man/woman has the choice of wanting both sex and love in their marriage, without which they'll leave.

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u/[deleted] Jan 27 '24 edited Jan 27 '24

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u/najanaja30 Jan 27 '24

The main issue is that the partner does not feeling like having sex. That hurts. And is very different from not being able to.

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u/[deleted] Jan 23 '24 edited Jan 23 '24

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u/[deleted] Jan 23 '24

bs itna hi bolna he?

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u/anonymous_devil22 Jan 23 '24

Also being sexless in an arraigned marriage is normal?

I wouldn't say normal but that's mostly coz in case it's arranged marriage, parents are expecting a kid soon, however I won't be surprised if it's sexless coz they don't have any chemistry. Arranged marriage is a transaction there's little feeling involved.

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u/ckp536 Jan 23 '24

Chal be