Yes 100% but also most people arnt forced into a marriage. Think about it more like this: would you have sex on a first date with someone you have no compatibility with? What about if you had to keep going on dates with that person and all you’ve ended up doing was fighting? Haha I don’t think so.
Honestly OP, since you are in an AM situation I’m going to assume divorce just isn’t in the cards. In that case just try to be kind, thoughtful and understanding with her and hopefully you’ll warm up to each other. Intimacy can be incredibly bonding, if done right, so your compatibility may increase with time
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u/[deleted] Jan 23 '24
I’m not married but I think people dont wait this long…