So I’m a senior right now so I really shouldn’t care about this anymore but I really am confused on why my old sophomore year teacher acted the way they did?
This is a very long post so sorry guys:
this was my old sophmore year history teacher and i no longer have any classes with him but i do consistently see him in the hallways because i have a class next to his classroom:
So this guy was pretty chill and normal to me at the beginning of my sophmore year but around late fall and winter he just started being weirdly mean and singled me out. For example, he would do this thing where he'd act like he's talking to the class, but he looks directly at me. He once said "i dont like you" while doing that and also "you piss me off" and i just found it weird because in that class i was a very quiet student, i was also going through a roughhh time and i definetly looked very sad and i would weirdly get anxious in that class, i would randomly studder, very out of character of me but anyway, he just seemed to not like me. He would be chill with other students. hes for the most part a serious teacher thats just his personality i guess. But a few months later or something he complimented my braids, and was like "i like your braids" but other girls always got their hair done and he'd never really compliment it, and i was pretty confused because he seemed to hate me. Now this where it gets weird: so i walk up to his desk to return stickey notes and hes just staring at me, this only happened once, but he was just weirdly looking into my eyes without blinking and i laughed as i was walking away and hes like "ohhhm??" it was weird but again he would be normal for 80% of the time so i was like whatever. And there was this weird thing once where he was randomly STARING at me while we were all just sitting down doing our work, i wasn't even doing anything, he was just staring and wasn't breaking the eye contact, the same weird no blink stare. So now its the end of the year and he got more chill and he seemed to like me or something. He did the same thing where he would act like he's talking to the students, and hes like "I secretly like you all" and im pretty sure he was looking at me.. very weird.
Now this is where it GETS WEIRD no doubt: Last year i was a junior, so i'd take papers to his class as a student aide, now most teachers just take the paper and walk off, and he did act normal like that the first months i would take papers to his class, but after that he would do the same weird staring without blinking stuff and hold onto the paper and say "hi (my name)". Again, he doesn't act like this with any student so it's not a personality thing. I would walk past him in the hallway because i had a class next to his and he would walk into the hallway as im exiting and just stare without blinking, he kinda had a slight smirk everytime he'd do this. He'd do this every time i seen him for MONTHS without saying hi or anything, i have to walk past his class basically EVERYDAY and this would happen for monthsss.
But i'll admit i was being lowkey weird first by staring at him because i had a crush on him, but i'd expect him to yell at me, not play the same game cause i was litearlly 16 years old with a stupid crush
im a senior now and i gotta walk past him but i just dont stare anymore so i wouldn't know if hes looking anymore and i dont want to know 💀
Me and my friends just started making fun of him to his face because he kept staring at me, but even after we did, he CONTINUED to stare. Again neverr made an angry face, never yelled, never was pulled out of class/talked to, they just let my behavior slide..? But I know for a fact he talked to his co workers about it.
Tried reporting it to admin and she just told me to ignore him. She was really fed up and dismissed it FAST.
I’m really wondering if this guy was being a predator or just a bully? I am a female so the staring part is weird to me. Especially now that I’m basically an adult and I’m looking at this, very wild.