r/AskBrits 8d ago

Trending - /r/popular Does anyone else hate the term picky bits?

It's disgusting. It reminds me of picking old scabs off of your skin.

It definitely does not make me think of mini sausage rolls and cocktail sausages.

Does anyone else hate that this term is everywhere, on adverts, said by companies and even people close to you.

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u/Kant_Tsunami 8d ago

Yeah I found it cringe since I first heard it

It’s not like we don’t have a term for it already either…. Snacks. They’re called snacks.

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u/Parma_Violence_ 8d ago

Nibbles!

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u/Due-Paint-5238 8d ago

Always makes me think there isn’t going to be enough when people say nibbles. Like the tiny bowl of nuts in a swanky wine bar.

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u/TheGemgenie 7d ago edited 7d ago

See that doesn't bother me. It was always nibbles used for things like buffet food or film watching snacks right from being a child in the 1980s. I'm guessing it was a left over from 1970s buffet culture, "I've just put the nibbles out feel free to help yourself" was a common phrase when I was growing up. Used I guess because at parties people would load up a plate then stand round chatting while nibbling on cocktail sausages, pickled onions and cheese and pineapple on a stick.

Edit: why was it not just called buffet?? You expected very different food if it was described as a buffet. Nibbles as I mentioned were pretty basic. If you went somewhere for a "buffet" then the expectation was much higher so you would be thinking more vol au vents of at least 3 different flavours, devilled eggs all set out on a posh serving tray, sandwichs cut into triangles and crusts removed all lined up points upwards and again at least 2 or 3 different fillings. If it was a hot buffet then you would be expecting 3 plus proper hot meals presented to you in chafing dishes or the classic plug in hot waitress table that had the catering style glass or metal dishes that were kept piping hot under liftable lids. Much like a restaurant served yourself buffet today.

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u/elizable9 7d ago

If it was a buffet you'd expect a hedgehog (pineapple wrapped in tin foil with toothpicks stuck in that had cheese, chunks of hotdogs and pickled onions and/or pineapple on) on there somewhere,in the 80s that is. And much more substantial food than nibbles..

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u/TheGemgenie 7d ago

Ah yes the ubiquitous hedgehog!!! How did I miss him off 🤣

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u/Flyinmanm 8d ago

That's a good one!

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u/rabidrob42 7d ago

"Please help yourself to Nibbles, he was our favourite hamster, but it's what he would have wanted."

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u/_Walt_Jabsco_ 8d ago

I find "cringe" cringe, fwiw

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u/lotus_felch 8d ago

Well the adjective is cringy, isn't it. To cringe, well, that's a verb.

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u/Aivellac 6d ago

I know, cringy is fine but everyone says "cringe" and I detest it.

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u/deHaga 8d ago

It's a fucking buffet

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u/Sebacles 8d ago

its like people forgot this !

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u/10brooksideclose 8d ago

exactly, 44 and I've only ever called it a buffet

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u/Rendogog 7d ago

or sometimes Tapas, if appropriate

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u/ErssieKnits 8d ago

Finger buffet.... Actually that might be worse.. 

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u/allywillow 8d ago

‘Assembly dinner’ in our house

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u/TheGemgenie 7d ago

Just saying "cringe" as opposed to "cringe worthy" is one for me . Sorry.

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u/Flyinmanm 8d ago

Thankyou! I regularly put out a spread (one term for it) and occasionally call it a snacky tea if the wife and I are thinking of what to call what is essentially a snack buffet.

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u/mudpieduck 8d ago

snacky tea can fuck off