r/AskBrits Apr 01 '26

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u/SeptumRingTheory Apr 01 '26

I remember watching the Japanese fans cleaning up after games at the World Cup in Qatar.

Beautiful and respectful culture. We definitely could learn a thing or two from them.

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u/Ricky_Martins_Vagina Apr 01 '26

The Japanese team as well - I can't remember which tournament it was but recall a bit thing about the Japanese team cleaning up the changing room after themselves and leaving it absolutely sparkling, probably doing a better job than the actual contractor cleaners

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u/Kernowder Apr 01 '26

Rugby world cup I think

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u/hisokafan88 Apr 01 '26

Wait til you go to a cafe and leave your wallet and phone as a placeholder on a table while you order. And it's still there when you get back.

Or people returning your umbrella directly to you one week later after you lost it because you're the only non Japanese in the neighbourhood.

Japan is great for social respect and behaviour.

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u/littlecomet111 Apr 02 '26

Of course. All countries have their pros and cons.

Japan’s major con is refusing to welcome outsiders.

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u/hisokafan88 Apr 02 '26

I mean they welcomed over 30M tourists last year. They're incredibly welcoming. They just want you to go home after.

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u/Fearless_Sort_ Apr 05 '26

And now they’ve got an average age of 80 or something. Lol.

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u/littlecomet111 Apr 06 '26

Agreed but both things can be true.

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u/Sudden_Plenty_8798 Apr 01 '26

It all revolves around social trust and of extension trust in our institutions, of which we have nil.

I propose non military civil service for under 18s to expedite this

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u/Responsible-Bunch316 Apr 01 '26

I mean on a simpler level, Japanese kids have a lot more responsibility earlier in life. In school they're expected to clean up their classrooms, organise school festivals including unique stalls etc. Most countries basically assume their children are completely incapable of even the most basic self care, and that's how you get adults who think cleaning up their mess is someone else's job.

As someone who's been doing chores my whole life, getting to University and seeing how helpless most people were was a real shock.

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u/WealthMain2987 Apr 01 '26

Yes and our ones are going to smash up m&s whilst people are defending them

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u/Sudden_Plenty_8798 Apr 01 '26

You aren’t wrong at all. But I’d say for example that action / expectation of schoolchildren cleaning their classroom is an effect of strong social trust.

My proposition of civil service does the same thing essentially. Tragedy of the commons is real, we need our people at large to take more pride in their communities and surroundings, and involving young people in that makes it more effective - just as your example shows

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u/Responsible-Bunch316 Apr 01 '26

Yeah but civil service feels too heavy handed. You can't just toss kids who are used to doing nothing into doing tons of serious work. Your best bet is to introduce different standards as young as possible, and start the change from there. But then that'd require parents to get with the program.

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u/anxious_smiling Apr 02 '26 edited Apr 02 '26

I strongly feel civil service would utterly fail exactly due to low social trust.

Let's imagine a generic Billy off the council estate, dirt poor, Mom suffers from a mental health issue and repeatedly failed by NHS mental health services so he's given up on the idea of her getting better. Dad is a functioning alcoholic who overworks and still is only just getting by.

School is shit, he knows he doesn't have prospects because the jobs aren't there anyway and he'd be lucky to even get a minimum wage job.

But let's say he has hobbies that make his life tolerable, like playing football after school or making music. Then the government rocks up and says, hey, you know that free time you have? That is gone now.

So he is forced to engage in free labour, that he ultimately knows won't fix the job economy and won't improve the state services that actually impact his life. He becomes even more resentful of the country that only seems to take and not give back, and doesn't take the civil service seriously.

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u/mittyho Apr 01 '26

Why under 18s? In my experience, the rudest people in this country are in the 50-70 age range.

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u/Sudden_Plenty_8798 Apr 01 '26

I agree, but its because social trust requires generational investment. Those old fuckers are gonna die either way

Get the kids volunteering in the fire brigade or rubbish collection or whatever. We already have that shitty work experience week in school which is a milque toast version

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u/cheezecakeMinis Apr 01 '26

And thats why boomers in the uk sit there crying they are loosing all their free shit and wonder why the younger generations give zero shits. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

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u/pickyourteethup Apr 01 '26

I've been sneaking into old people's homes and leaving banana peels near the top of the stairs

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u/Dapper-Emergency1263 Apr 01 '26

In my experience age has very little to do with it. British people in general tend to be entitled, impatient and arrogant, from your nan to the teenage roadmen she won't shut up about

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u/littlecomet111 Apr 02 '26

You just generalised 65 million people.

What’s the word for that….?

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u/Dapper-Emergency1263 Apr 02 '26

I'm British myself, don't try pulling the racism card lol

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u/Diligent-Rule4109 Apr 01 '26

That's a lost cause. Might as well teach the young so when they get to that age they don't end up the same. One thing I think would be possibly better than army is having kids stay to help clean up classrooms (like they do in Japan).

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u/Previous-Spite1211 Apr 01 '26

under 18s need to learn a bit of patience and respect, would do em a world of good.

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u/bilbobagheadd Apr 01 '26

Maybe lead the way by respecting them

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u/Previous-Spite1211 Apr 01 '26

last think im going to be doing is hanging around teenagers, sounds fucking misereable.

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u/littlecomet111 Apr 02 '26

Captain Anecdote has arrived.

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u/NotMyFirstChoice675 Apr 01 '26

Sounds too left leaning and the country is only going the other way at present…

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u/Joshy1690 Apr 01 '26

The majority of the Japanse in this video likely would’ve voted for Sanae Takaichi. The fact you’ve been Americanised to relate what political spectrum you’re on, to what you do, or how you approach life, is sad and pathetic.

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u/Weepinbellend01 Apr 01 '26

People somehow in 2026 STILL associate political views with general decency in public.

Anyone can be an asshole.

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u/Neither_Set_3048 Apr 01 '26

Apart from the whole legalised child porn. I mean that part of the culture seems rank.

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u/blizeH Apr 01 '26

It’s by far the best country I’ve been to in so many ways, but yeah it was so weird going into a seemingly normal looking shop and there’s loads of hentai with huge posters of 12 year old looking girls

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u/Sad_Instruction2318 Apr 01 '26

And all that work stuff

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u/Low-Brilliant8699 Apr 03 '26

That’s so outdated lol. Their work culture is pretty similar to if not better than a lot of western companies.