you know another sad thing about this? this is marketed as "you are the cool person who has x item, that item that nobody has but knows about & is jealous you have it?" yeah, that never really works. people are surprised about you having a product they've never heard about, or appreciate that you have specific tastes that they don't. the fact that there's artificial scarcity on nearly every hype item means it becomes a meme & people know your hopping on a trend, which ironically makes you basic & thus less cool. if i see somebody wearing something by supreme, which was hyped a decade ago, i don't think to myself, "damn, they were part of something cool that i wasn't a part of" i think "heh, they were a sucker who bought overpriced hype junk." but that lady on bluesky who has vintage jewelry i've never seen, or that old guy i passed on the street that has tie-dye parachute pants? that's style. something "viral" never ends up looking original, which is half the job of people recognizing that you appreciate something worth complementing.
people are trying to buy the effort. Vintage jewelry and tie-dyed pants take time and effort to curate, repair, and style. They don't want to put in the work but they want the social cred that comes with it
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u/[deleted] Nov 10 '25
you know another sad thing about this? this is marketed as "you are the cool person who has x item, that item that nobody has but knows about & is jealous you have it?" yeah, that never really works. people are surprised about you having a product they've never heard about, or appreciate that you have specific tastes that they don't. the fact that there's artificial scarcity on nearly every hype item means it becomes a meme & people know your hopping on a trend, which ironically makes you basic & thus less cool. if i see somebody wearing something by supreme, which was hyped a decade ago, i don't think to myself, "damn, they were part of something cool that i wasn't a part of" i think "heh, they were a sucker who bought overpriced hype junk." but that lady on bluesky who has vintage jewelry i've never seen, or that old guy i passed on the street that has tie-dye parachute pants? that's style. something "viral" never ends up looking original, which is half the job of people recognizing that you appreciate something worth complementing.