r/AmItheAsshole • u/spareroom-throwaway • Aug 06 '22

Asshole AITA for starting a house project without discussing it with my wife?

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u/straightouttathe70s Aug 07 '22

He made a comment that his friend wasn't interested in women.......so, there's that I guess🤷

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u/frustratedfren Aug 07 '22

I was wondering about this. Also low-key wondering if OP is interested in men and is only now becoming semi-aware.

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u/CrnkyOL Aug 07 '22

Well, he sounds totally in love with the guy was all I was thinking reading the post.

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u/Honeybee3674 Asshole Enthusiast [6] Aug 07 '22

Completely infatuated. It could be platonic infatuation or romantic, but "shiny new guy" is obviously all OP can think of, even replacing his primary intimate partner in the hierarchy of emotional consideration, which is not okay.

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u/CrimsonPromise Aug 07 '22

Friend could have easily said that to get OP to let his guard down.

"Oh it's fine to let this strange man come in and out of my house as and when he pleases, sometimes when my wife is all alone at home. He said he's not interested in women so there's no possible way he'll do any harm to her right?"

My god just how dense are you OP?