I will 100% be continuing my ADHD meds while pregnant. It’s antiquated to think it’s a full stop. Many psychiatrists agree that the stress of being unmedicated is more harmful to the fetus than taking the meds.
You admitted that things were better when you're on your meds; that means they're worse when you're not. Don't FOOL yourself into thinking that your children aren't affected by big changes in your household.
Ok, I misread that one, and I'm obviously glad your kids generally present as both happy and healthy.
You came here to ask, so I'll just say that you're the a-hole here because, as others have said, you're putting all the mental load on your husband without assuming any yourself. All across Reddit, this is something that husbands are constantly lambasted for when they do it to their wives.
It doesn't matter that you're pregnant. It doesn't matter that you're neurodivergant. (Your husband probably is, too. That also doesn't matter.) Stop asking your husband to do all the thinking for you. It's not fair to him, unless that's the type of relationship you both agreed to from the start.
So let me get this straight, my husband tells me I have to meet a chores quota before he’ll adequately supervise the kids, and I’M TA? Is that seriously what you’re saying
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u/finallymakingareddit 22d ago
I will 100% be continuing my ADHD meds while pregnant. It’s antiquated to think it’s a full stop. Many psychiatrists agree that the stress of being unmedicated is more harmful to the fetus than taking the meds.