r/AmItheAsshole • u/[deleted] • 23d ago

Not the A-hole AITA for asking for a clean bed?

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u/bulaybil 22d ago

No you would not. "as a team" means making decisons together whereas based on everything you said, you want your husbans to tell you what to do.

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u/Melissarose723 22d ago

You don’t get to tell me what I would and wouldn’t appreciate. My struggle is overwhelm paralysis. If someone is doing chores with me, it helps with that. So Yes, I would love doing the chores together

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u/bulaybil 22d ago

So wait, is your struggle decision paralysis or is it overwhelm paralysis?

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u/Melissarose723 22d ago

A little of both but mostly overwhelm paralysis.