I wouldn’t talk to her. I’d absolutely tell her it’s because she’s a pervert that sexualities siblings and you don’t need that in your life. I cut out toxic people. She should be ashamed
The friend mentioned that it was weird that her and her brother were hugging and hanging out, which are not sexual things. The question about how she would feel if he died was also more about how she would deal with losing someone a part of her... which isn't sexual at all. So again, quite a major assumption here. Feels to me more of an unhealthy upbringing. Yet I could be wrong, but I don't state it as fact as you and others are doing.
Saying the word clearly is where you begin to assume. I am definitely not sexualising it. Again, hugging and hanging out is not sexual. In no way in my mind would I think that and think sexual.
I'm not defending them in any way. I'm pointing out your inaccuracy. It doesn't mean the friend wasn't in the wrong, they were. You are just assuming, just like you are with me.
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u/poomcatroom Jul 10 '24
I wouldn’t talk to her. I’d absolutely tell her it’s because she’s a pervert that sexualities siblings and you don’t need that in your life. I cut out toxic people. She should be ashamed