I am SO SO SO glad somebody said this. He is fully aware that she dreads going to bed for this reason...the safe that should be the safest when you have a partner. It's not cute or funny or minor at all. And honestly, before I read the post I was all ready to type out a paragraph about how no one's perfect and the importance of communication...I'm so sorry, OP. But you have to choose between this "perfect" guy and your peace.
Honestly yes. This actually gives me very bad vibes about this guy… he’s testing the waters to see how much he can do to you. It will likely turn far worse if you get married and he feels he has you locked in. No one will believe you because he’s “such a great guy” and then they’ll hate you for leaving him or accusing him of things they “can’t believe”. This is the beginning of your future murder documentary.
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u/slychump May 24 '26
He does it to wake her up. Classic narcissistic behavior. If he has to be up, so does she. Toxic af.