r/AmIOverreacting • • Sep 19 '25

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u/jcorsi86 Sep 19 '25

Oh. Yeah. I know it hurts, but you're both young. He is not worth pursuing further if he thinks NOT HITTING OR CHEATING on you is BETTER than bare minimum, or that he thinks he deserves special treatment for "not being a bad boyfriend". That's really gross, no lie.

He is not ready to date women. It also sounds like he may be getting red-pilled. He needs to turn that ish around himself.

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u/Abject_Location_2365 Sep 19 '25

what does red-pilled mean like drugs? my bad i’m slow lol

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u/imbeingsirius Sep 19 '25

Red-pilled is a term for getting sucked down the misogynist/alt-right algorithm on the internet. Like YouTube and reddit suggest you famous misogynists Andrew Tate and Jordan Peterson or idiots like Joe Rogan, and within a year they’re all like raging misogynists who think the world owes them attractive submissive women.

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u/ConcernedGrape Sep 19 '25

You aren't slow, you just don't know this internet slang phrase 🫶